Andrea Leadsom, wannabe Prime Minister, today said a stupid thing.  As furiously as she back-peddles, the audio recording confirms she really did say the stupid thing.  But I’m not lining up to throw a rock at her, she let out an incomplete and unguarded thought and if all my stupid comments were published in the papers, I’d be hated too. …

This blog post was written in a very honest moment and contains strong language, please do not read on if this would offend you. When you can’t have children, Mother’s Day approaches with all the expectancy and welcome of a drunk uncle at Christmas.  A whole day dedicated to celebrating your greatest pain and designed to make you feel more…

This month our own Lizzie and Sonya Doragh were interviewed on Bay TV about their experiences of childlessness, infertility and multiple miscarriage.

“Why bring up the past?”, “Can’t you just move on?”, “What good is it to keep going over this stuff?” I hear questions like these fairly regularly, especially since we started blogging about childlessness.  At their best they come from a place of love.  No one wants to see someone they love in pain so they try to move them…

Today I’ve been thinking about a Christian celeb by the name of Vicky Beeching who came out as gay in a national newspaper this morning. It got me thinking not because it’s unusual but because it’s so very usual. The life she had been living prior to today sounds like hell. She lived one life and felt another. It was…

Last week we found out our sixth baby had died.  Two weeks before there had been a much better scan, we saw a tiny baby and a tiny heartbeat and we were briefly very happy.  I say briefly because we had been there before and the heartbeat, somewhere along the way had stopped, and so it happened again.  At some…